Living in a War Zone

This one's for you, fellow mamas!  Do you ever feel like you live in a war zone?  Atomic bombs of diarrhea, booby trapped land minds of cheerios that explode when you step on them, cannons's of vomit that take out limbs, or what about the tanks that you step on in the middle of the night trying to navigate your way to the bathroom.  With all the destruction looming around every corner, some days it feels like you are a prisoner of war.  Well ladies, I bring good news!  There is a POW camp set up in every war zone just for us and it's a wonderful place that has long been discovered, although not shared, by our fellow "war parters", our husbands.  This POW safe-haven is none other than THE BATHROOM!  Yes ladies, I said it.  Men have been coming home from work and heading straight for the bathroom for centuries, leaving us abandoned in the war zone to fend for ourselves like a target in an open field.  Well I'm taking the camp back and I'm making it my own with candles, a CD player, and the best part... a lock on the door!  So join with me ladies and lets get some much needed relief.  Fight the open fires, eliminate the looming bombs and when there seems to be a tiny break in between enemy attacks, escape to your camp for a warm bath and a good crossword puzzle (or whatever your camp allows).  Let's all take a break from war to regroup and prepare for the next battle because you know it's coming.  Good luck and be safe!

Am I crazy?

Today was a crazy day.  Who am I kidding, every day in this house is a crazy day, but today had a little EXTRA crazy.  I love being a stay-at-home-mom and I love having my sewing business, but there are some days when I just feel like I've put a little too much on my plate and that I'm just a little crazy myself.  Today was definitely one of those days.  I found myself wondering why I even bother trying to have a business when I have children at home with me.  Maybe I should give up the dream of making something of myself (other than a mommy) and just accept that I have a full time job with no days off, no holidays, no vacation time... this is it.  I hear myself think these things and want to smack myself, but then again, that takes a lot of energy that I'm already lacking (hence the reason for these thoughts to begin with.)  Are we seeing a pattern forming?!  Ugh, I hate when I have these days.  I'd much rather stay with the days when I feel great, have energy, the kids are happy and play nice, and I'm inspired to create my items for my store!  That's not too much to ask, is it!?!?!?!  Ok, I've answered my own question... Yes, I AM crazy.

Joy To The World, The Nap Has Come!

"O Christmas Tree, O Christmas Tree... Andrew stop taking the ornaments off the tree. OK, lets start over... O Christmas Tree, O Christmas Tree....Andrew, honey, I know we have to water the tree, but we don't need to do it with the milk from your cup.... O Christmas Tree, O Christmas Tree....Now Hannah try to tone down the squealing a bit, we can't sing if our ears are ringing .... O Christmas Tree, O Christmas Tree... Now Hannah, that just sounded like screaming.  Settle down... O Christmas Tree, O Christmas...... O forget it!


 I'm thinking a rousing chorus of "Joy To The World, The Nap Has Come" is in order

Keeper of the Cheerios

Some days, when I'm really needing the help, I allow Andrew to sit in the living room and watch cartoons while he eats his breakfast.  Today is one of those days.  He's watching Dora and dancing around with excitement and I can't help but giggle.  Suddenly, out of no where, this precious little boy comes to me saying "Pizzzzz pizzzzz!" (Which translates to please) As I turned to look at him, he's holding his bowl up with big puppy dog eyes and I knew he wanted more Cheerios. The thought suddenly dawned on me that I am the "Keeper of the Cheerios."  What an awesome job!  I am the sole caretaker of the most beloved breakfast cereal and it's up to ME to make sure that cereal is always there.  No one comes to the Cheerio without momma.  I can't help but chuckle at the fact that I'm so deeply amused at this thought, or that I even had the thought to begin with.  It probably stems from having a cold, trying to do too much, and being sleep deprived, but by the same token it just doesn't take much to amuse me anymore so who knows.  None the less, I have now added a new title to my resume... Mom, wife, nurse, pharmacist, maid, cook, janitor, interior decorator, CEO of the Frazier Home, and Keeper of the Cheerios!  Ah, it's good to be Momma. 

Family Fun

It's fun to think back to childhood road trips with your parents and siblings.  They were fun when you were little, silly when you hit elementary age, and a terrible cramp in your style when you were a teenager.  None the less, you never seemed to understand what goes behind these "family fun" trips.  Now that I am a mother of two, a wife to one, and a 20 year old soul trapped in what feels like an 80 year old body, I can fully understand and respect what these trips require.  Not only can I understand and respect, I question the sanity of every woman behind one of these "trips".  There is NO WAY you can pack and prepare for a family trip without completely loosing your mind.  I used to laugh at my mother while she ran around the house, the day before we left, like a chicken with her head cut off.  "Did you switch the clothes to the dryer?  Did you finish packing your suitcase?  You did?  Well did you pack enough socks.... Did you get church clothes?  Where's your coat?  That's not a coat, that's a jacket.  If we have car trouble, you'll freeze!"  Ah, I can hear her like it was yesterday.  Here's the funny part:  Today as I was packing, I found myself calling my husband, at work mind you, to ask if he had packed enough clothes, or if I needed to pack for him.  Tonight, I asked where his coat was and found myself in a deep, one sided conversation, about car hypothetical car trouble.  Wow, I guess the apple really doesn't fall far from the tree.  :-)  Love ya mom!  So now I sit here, ice cold coca~cola in hand, understanding a bit about what it means to be the woman behind the "family fun" trip...  Is there a return policy?

What are you Thankful for?

As we draw near to the holiday season, I try to reflect on the year past.  What has happened that was good, what was bad, what were the little moments that made me laugh?  Every year I do this as a reminder of how blessed I am.  This year, as I sit on this saggy, worn out couch with my favorite sweats and a hot cup of coffee, I have my daughter (our newest edition) laying in my lap cooing at me, and suddenly I'm reminded of what I'm thankful for.  I feel so blessed, and so appreciative, for all the wonderful things I seem to take for granted throughout the year.  I have a home; it may be small and cluttered, but it's a warm, safe home.  I have two miracle babies that doctors said I would never have.  I have a husband that is committed to me, a dog to protect me, a car to take me where I need to go, food on my table and clothes on my back.  So why must we wait until the end of the year to acknowledge what God has so faithfully blessed us with all year long?  Maybe that will be my New Years Resolution, to remember and be thankful for everything I have, all year long.

What's for Dinner?

One of the most infamous questions to grace a mother's ears... "What's for dinner?" If you are anything like me, that question just sets me off wrong. Most days I'm doing good just to make it to dinner time, let alone know "what's for dinner"! I'm always looking for new recipes and a change in flavor and I'm happy to share, I have created a new recipe that sounds great and won't break the bank, or your time schedule! What is this fabulous meal you ask? Spicy Ginger Shrimp over Pasta! This recipe can be made with whole wheat, or for those of us who are gluten intolerant, I have included gluten free options in parenthesis.

Spicy Ginger ShrimpWhole Wheat Pasta (Gluten Free Pasta)
26-32 Frozen Shrimp (thawed)
1/3 cup Whole Wheat Flour (Brown Rice Flour)
2 TBSP Organic Extra Virgin Olive Oil or Organic Coconut Oil
1 recipe Spicy Ginger SauceSpicy

Ginger Sauce:
3 tablespoons Extra Virgin Olive Oil
3 tablespoons Rice vinegar
1½ tablespoon Soy sauce
1 tablespoon Oriental sesame oil
2 teaspoons Minced fresh peeled ginger
1 teaspoon Sugar
1 Carrot, shredded
1/4 Teaspoon Red Pepper
2 Green onions, sliced thin
½ Cucumber, seeded, peeled and chopped
¼ cup Chopped fresh cilantro

Fill a two quart boiler half full of water and bring to a boil. Add pasta and allow to cook while you prepare shrimp. Warm olive oil in 10in skillet over Med/High heat. Place flour in medium mixing bowl and add thawed/rinsed shrimp. Toss to coat. Carefully place shrimp in hot oil without overlapping and discard remaining flour. Cook shrimp for 3-5 minutes and then turn. Cook an additional 3 minutes. While shrimp is cooking, mix together in clean mixing bowl all ingredients for sauce. Slowly drizzle sauce over shrimp and allow to cook 3 minutes more. Drain Pasta and toss in skillet with shrimp and sauce. Mix well and Viola'! This is great served with a salad and Sesame Ginger Dressing, or you can double the spicy ginger sauce and then you have a dressing as well! (This sauce is GREAT chilled.)

So ladies now you have the answer for that dreaded question, because "That's What's For Dinner." Enjoy!